According to sexperts, by 2023 society will continue to move towards a more flexible and open attitude regarding our sex lives and sex trends. So, my friends, the future looks bright and enticing.
According to these enlightened minds, this is all thanks to the normalization of certain previously unspoken sexual desires and acts.
So let’s talk about sex trends, especially the ones that will most likely be most relevant throughout this year.
Sexual Mindfulness
The sexual version of mindfulness is a rising current between philosophical and practical that seeks emotional well-being by connecting with the emotions and the body.
According to proponents of this practice, our way of thinking plays an important role in our sexual experiences, so getting our minds and thoughts on our side can help us tune in to our desire, arousal and pleasure.
If all of this sounds as vague to you as it does to us, know that there are online courses and apps that will help us apply them in our day-to-day life.
Sex without penetration
It seems that only 18% of women are able to reach orgasm during penetration, so it’s not surprising that an increasing percentage of women admit to masturbation: between 40% and 60%.
Experts say that moving away from penetration is the perfect opportunity to explore the sensations on the clitoris and make sex life more varied. And if those same experts work in multinationals that manufacture and sell sex toys, doesn’t it all make more sense?
Remote masturbation
It’s seen but not touched. While traditional sex will not go out of fashion this year, the novelty is to masturbate in front of your partner, each with his or her own sex toy, without any contact between you. Logically, we must neutralize stage embarrassment to give a good show: try different positions, not inhibit the moans, in order to make our partner so horny that we achieve orgasm without touching him/her.
Pelvic floor training for everyone
We are used to hearing that pelvic floor training is recommended for women after pregnancy or as they get older, but how would you feel if you were told that men can also benefit from exercising the pelvic floor?
People with a high level of body tension (those who clench their jaw when they sleep, who often spend long periods of time frowning and who have become accustomed to lower back pain) are the ones who can benefit the most from these exercises.
For others, it is simply another way to increase pleasure, and those who already have experience can achieve longer and more intense orgasms. There are – how could there not be – apps that help us exercise it, so why not invest some precious time in your pelvic floor?
Sex with Roleplay
Role-playing has navigated its way into the forefront of sex trends in 2023, bringing an element of fantasy and creativity to intimate encounters.
This kind of sexual exploration allows couples to step into varied personas, altering their conversational and sexual dynamics in a fun and titillating way. Be it doctor-nurse, teacher-student, or even popular character enactments from film, television or books, role-play invites a sense of novelty and excitement, breaking the monotony of regular interactions.
To facilitate this, numerous online outlets, such as LustNerd, provide a range of quality role-play costumes that cater to all fantasies and desires. Consent-centric and tailored to promoting mutual understanding between partners, role-playing stands as a testament to the progressively sexual awareness and individual preferences embraced by society in 2023.
Sexual flattery
Many people blush when compliments are said to them, but now it turns out that others experience different types of physiological responses that are identified with sexual arousal. And what is the type of compliments that most excite these egomaniacs? Well, the ones you would expect to hear during sex: “I love x part of your body “, “I like it when you do this to me”, or “Damn, you look so hot”…. Anyway, it seems that this is now a trend.
We’ll have to see how many of these trends make it to summer alive, or even how many won’t even make it past conception. If you don’t feel identified with any of them, don’t worry too much. Instead, let us know which practices and desires you feel like making come true during these next months.